The Independent Woman is Not a Myth
The independent woman is not a myth; the independent woman is viewed by many as a mystical creature or a goddess and even a myth. Sorry to burst your bubbles but independent women exist and I like to think am one (yes… I am an independent woman, maybe not fully independent but I plan on getting there someday.) An independent woman as defined in the Urban dictionary is a woman who pays her own bills, buys her own things, and does not allow a man to affect her stability or self-confidence. She supports herself entirely on her own and is proud to be able to do so. (Hmm… I take my words back, I think I don’t fit the criteria of an independent woman according to the Urban dictionary; I am a quarter independent woman. LOL)
Most men wants to date an independent woman while some domineering fellow think it’s a bad idea; you will have to think again because I will discuss the benefits of dating an independent woman in this article. Enjoy the ride!
1. Not Clingy
Most men hate clingy women, it might be exciting for some at the initial stage, but clinginess screams insecurity and it’s not in any way sexy. An independent woman will give you your personal space, she won’t be webbing your entire life; she knows how to show her love and the appropriate time to do so, she understands that a ‘significant other’ is a part of their lives and not their entire life. In short, they have a life outside of you.
2. Inspiring
Do you want a woman that has gone through the tides of life? An independent woman is courageous and like everyone else, she has fears of failure, but more than anything is afraid of going through life without fulfilling her potential. Her “I-can-do-anything” personality will sure shake your perceptions about how you may be living your own life, and inspire you to achieve your dreams.
3. Not afraid of being alone
Are you thinking of how to have long vacations or business trips without your significant other sometimes? Well don’t fright, an independent woman is the one for you. While you are not with her, she will keep herself busy with work and occupy her mind with innovative ideas. She is not afraid of being left alone.
4. She loves to love
The independent woman loves to love; she may seem distant sometimes, she may not be the most affectionate partner but she is stunningly thoughtful in how she displays her love.
5. Thrives on her independence
The independent woman is the best example of a helpmate; she will ignite your life with her determination and success and will give you the push you need to make a difference in your own life. She knows what she is capable of accomplishing and isn’t afraid to take on whatever career challenges come her way.
The independent woman is real and she is loads of fun to get to know. She have weaknesses and strengths just like everybody else but she is determined and unarguably have power to better the world. Now you have to ask yourself if you have got the balls to date an independent woman. The Independent woman needs someone that understands her and gives her personal space. And only a significant other that has a life of their own and who values independence will be able to meet the independent woman’s needs. So, have you got what it takes? An advice to women:
Develop your self, aim at being independent because independence is the new sexy.
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