Men talk about dating
We discuss a lot about single ladies and we neglect single men. Yeah! Some men are single; I don’t know why people don’t associate men with the single word. Recently, I spoke with few of my male friends that are single; this is what they had to say. “Men talk.”
- 1. We are really nervous when we ask you out
They talked about how nervous they feel when they ask a woman out. Coming up with a plan isn’t easy, either.
“Sometimes we have a hard time coming up with ideas.”
Women don’t realize how hard it is for men to ask them out. A guy doesn’t know the girl that well, he’s got to plan everything, spend money … look nice, use deodorant … it’s a big deal. “Men talk”
- 2. We don’t want you to read too much into a first date
If I go on a date, even if I go on a second date, I’m interested in finding out more about you. It doesn’t mean I’m ready to commit. I’ll be clear about when I’m ready.
Women act differently on dates; they act more formal. That mentality changes the whole date and creates awkward moments. “Men talk”
- 3. We like it when you smile
If they don’t smile, it’s hard to judge how your relationship is. But a smile is like a green light that I can ask you out.
“If they’re open, they’re talking, they’re smiling, and that makes it easier.”
- 4. We are attracted to women with goals
Women with some kind of passion are worth pursuing.
When a woman actually cares about herself, and cares about others, it’s just so attractive. We listen carefully when women talk about their goals because we want to know that our wife could take care of the children if something happened to them. “Men talk”
- 5. We would love more cues
Sometimes I wish that a woman I’ve been out with several times would give more cues. Is it a free meal, or is she really interested in me?
Ladies, you heard what men say about dating, it ain’t easy on them and you folks ain’t helping matters either.
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