My ex-girlfriend once asked me if I loved her. Do I love her? Well, let’s just say in the course of a 3-year relationship I bought her a hat, a scarf, a t-shirt and a sweater. We broke up…I let her keep the sweater.
Now, I know you cannot put a price tag on love but that sweater really set a brother back, aite? You know what I’m saying?
How far should a man go for love?
This is the question I want you guys, my esteemed readers to answer. I have gotten a couple of answers to this question from people of both genders. Would have loved to let you in on them but wanna know yours first.
Now, love is love. It doesn’t matter what race the girl is, when the lights go off we are all black…lol!
There is this girl I met just recently and damn! She fine…she is so beautiful, physically and intellectually. Now, this girl has made it clear that she just wants to be friends and I understand her loud and clear but I don’t want to do that because I have feelings for her. Yes, feelings.
I remember telling myself that this year I ain’t falling for no chick but hmmm…it hasn’t worked out so far. I am willing to do anything (within my power) for this girl but she is like the Nigerian electricity; comes on and goes off. This moment she is all awesome and passionate and the next she is all ‘stay clear man’. It is funny though because I really do want to be with her no matter what and I have explained it to her but to no avail. What more can I do? Sorry I can’t spill things I’ve done for her (she is probably reading this post right now) though they are not so great, but I’m willing to do more.
So, love…what to do?
How far should I go for love?
I was about writing on something else, probably about my fantasy girl and how far I should go in making it come to reality but I think I’ll pass; let’s back up a little to the girl I am liking. Can you believe that this girl described ‘love’ as a conceptual idea formulated from different feelings and emotions? She said that shit ain’t real…for real! She gave this brother no hope. Anyway, I don’t blame her, come on who would put faith in something that’s started by a little white baby with wings and no pants, flying out of the clouds and shooting arrows. Yeah! And what kind of name is Cupid? That shit ain’t real. Or is it? I will not say I am confused but I just shared this so you can advise me on what to do.
I know y’all love me like I do you so you will help me in defeating this dilemma and hopefully get her to wanting me too… fingers crossed as I anxiously wait.
Thanks in advance…
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