Sometimes, “it’s lonely being me”, “no one gets me” that what a lot of people think. The vast majority of the worlds population think they are either better than everyone else because cannot maintain good relationships.
Being an introvert, i know that trying to understand people or trying to find the “perfect one” is like figuring out why flying cars aren’t available. It’s cool to look for that perfect one or trying to be understood by a friend or life companion but we should also remember that as individuals our genetic make-up and behavioural differences- sometimes caused by our environment- deter our ability to be understood and to make good friends and build long lasting relationships.
Remember that the kind of people that come into your life are reflections of yourself in one way or another; it sounds crazy right? That’s what i thought at first, but after some few weeks of looking at my friends and my life i saw a little bit myself in them. Deep down we all know this; there are things in our lives that we want to improve or add to our persona and that friend has that particular trait. Unknowingly we are drawn to them like nail to a magnet.
Here are some tips to achieving lasting relationships;
- You must be ready to enter a whole new universe outside your own.
- Be prepared to leave your comfort zone.
- Bear in mind that tough times are ahead and unavoidable, you must weather that storm and come out stronger.
- Know that the world is not your wish granting factory, so you may never get what you wished for in the manner you are expecting.
- Listen to each other, never let your voice be above your companions’ own.
- Try to find a common ground in every argument. (Home Base if you will).
- Most importantly, Pray. Because prayer is the foundation on which every lasting relationship in mounted on.
But Hey!! what do i know, these are just my thoughts. I hope you try them out because it never hurts to try.
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