Dealing with Heartbreak
In my experience of dealing with heartbreak, it’s not as difficult as most people paint it to be neither is it easy to deal with; it’s like that itch that wouldn’t go away.
People come into our lives one way or the other, by fate or by whatever you believe it to be. For me fate is a wheel that turns and thus we are the sand that is crushed between the logs.
Dealing with heartbreak is one the hardest thing I’ve ever had to deal with and still is never easy when it happens. But sometimes we actually bring it upon ourselves; for instance a relationship we knew from the start that wouldn’t last or even begin. For we have painted in our minds that perfect union that makes us loose sense of reality.
Some people say it’s better to have loved than to have not known love at all, that is true in most cases but for someone badly hurt they feel it’s better to have not loved at all. The sensation one gets from such a mortal blow to the heart is one that no physical injury could be compared to.
To be honest, there is no “perfect way” in dealing with heartbreak, because to each individual there is always something different that works. But anyway I would still like to give some tips on dealing with heartbreak;
- Remember first that you’re only human and there’s only so much you can do; learn to accept loss.
- Know that it was for the best and that someone better will come your way.
- It’s more psychological that emotional; you have to let go from your mind first and the healing process will begin.
- Listen to good music that will uplift your spirit
- Be in the midst of friends that will cheer you up and take your mind of it.
- Finally pray, because only God truly knows how you feel, and Him alone can heal a broken heart.
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