RESPECT HIS PERSONAL SPACE or lose him to it.
Hello girls, I want to talk about an issue which has plagued relationships for a long period of time now; it’s called my personal space.
Most people (especially us girls) have refused to understand the value of one’s personal space, a personal space is a ‘me’ time for any human, and trust me it is relished with uttermost pleasure. For an average everyday guy it’s usually that time when they are playing a football match, or when he wants to play his PS3 FIFA or Mortal Kombat or Need For Speed, or whichever game is necessary to him.
Then for the really over-serious, weird or whatever-you-may-want-to-call-them guys, it’s usually that time when they think, read a book, write an article or assignment, listen to music while their eyes are closed, watching a weird detective movie, or meditating and creating new make-the-world-a-better-place-ideas in their head, (now you don’t want to disturb that).
Onto the main topic; Ladies when your man is watching a match and you can’t watch the match with him, babe it’s just 90mins, how about you actually pick up your phone and check you recent Instagram followers rather than disturb the hell outta him, you go all,
Bae, what are you watching? Like you are blind and cannot see it, baby who’s the guy in blue? Why is he running around the field waving a red card?
I refuse to believe that you do not know that that was actually the referee, but you just had to ask didn’t you? Huh? Honey the least you can do for him is to get him a damn snack and a drink and skedaddle the hell outta there… you are just going to get him irritated with your pest-like attitude.
He needs something to discuss with the guys tomorrow that’s why he’s paying so much attention to the game and you are depriving him of a good point he might need to make.
Girl, if by tomorrow he doesn’t show up at your place or pick your calls, you kind of deserve it because he’s angry that he had to hear from his friends that Torres cried at the end of the match after losing to Real Madrid at the last game of the Champions League, simply because you wouldn’t get out of the front of the TV during the match because you wanted to get his attention on something that was probably not really important or because your ass was feeling a tad bit neglected.
If you cannot force yourself to watch the match like he tries to watch your Telemundo with you, then leave him alone like he does when you are watching Zee World. Simple!
When he is playing a game quietly come and lie down beside him or ask him to teach you how to play, he definitely will oblige, he will. Guys love to teach a girl how to play because they want you to be involved in their life and if you make an attempt to be genuinely involved they’d really love it, but if you can’t it’s nice to just let them be else they’ll tell you off and you won’t like it, no one does.
Now for the other guys, the serious ones, their brains are working 24/7 and they still find time out for you. They watch movies with you and then when they pick up their laptops to work there you are jumping up and down on him, telling him who wooed you, which of your friends broke up with her boyfriend, etc.
Auntie who told you that he wanted to know about them?
These ones unlike the others would not tell you that you are disturbing, they’d just save the page and shut the laptop, but by tomorrow evening he’d come back late and your paranoia will kick in –
he’s cheating on me, isn’t he? He’s coming back late, I will find that b**ch and I will kill her
When all he was actually doing was working at a friend’s crib so you, his nagging-disturbance-of-a-girlfriend would not give him trouble. Then you’d start seeing less and less of him, well you can’t blame anyone, you turned his ‘me’ time to ‘we’ time you encroached his space and suffocated him so he went to look for air some other place.
Before he met you he was himself and you fell for him, so you gotta let him remain him or lose him because you want him to leave him and be us (hope that made sense?)
Bottom line, RESPECT HIS PERSONAL SPACE or lose him to it.
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